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Announcing something + big change 7 years 9 months ago #715192

lied about illnesses before doubt this is real lol zarpgaming.com/index.php/forum/general-d...know-how-to-say-this	Tadgee Offline Gold Boarder Posts: 2326 Thanks received: 480 Karma: 3
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Announcing something + big change 7 years 9 months ago #715207

Since I’ve had to delete a lot of posts on here throughout the day, this is just a reminder that nobody should be posting anything disrespectful or transphobic on this thread.

I have seen some pretty disgusting comments on here, such as some people calling it a “joke” or an “illness”.

I myself learnt to understand this from a young age, since one of my parents is transgender, and went through gender reassignment surgery when I was only 3. Got a lot of bullying from it in school, but I’m very happy to see that overall, Sophia can be accepted for who she is, and not bullied or hated on by everyone.

Remember though, I will be deleting anything that the few people who can’t seem to take this appropriately post which is disrespectful or transphobic in any way, of anything that Sophia takes offense to.

Again, I am overall very pleased with the attitude towards this from people as a whole, and I am sure that Sophia is happy about this too, to be accepted so easily, this is just a cheeky little reminder to a few people.

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Announcing something + big change 7 years 9 months ago #715233

As a member of the LGBTQ+ community and that I have many friends who are in similar situations to you, I can understand how brave you must've been to admit this to everyone. And i'm so glad you're doing something that'll make you happier. You're such a sweet person and I hope everything goes well for you. Also Sophia is a beautiful name! My bestfriend irl shares it	LucyLevi17 Offline Senior Boarder ex-PH Admin - SSRP mod Posts: 674 Thanks received: 176 Karma: -5
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Announcing something + big change 7 years 9 months ago #715247

Glad u came out, good luck!	Vid Offline Expert Boarder The Legendary "Ruski" Kid Posts: 1046 Thanks received: 269 Karma: 1
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Announcing something + big change 7 years 9 months ago #715248

TheXnator wrote:

I have seen some pretty disgusting comments on here, such as some people calling it a “joke” or an “illness”.

I completely agree with it being disgusting and should be condemned that people would call this a joke, it's just insensitive and rude. However, calling it an "illness" isn't factually incorrect - it's known as "gender dysphoria" which is acknowledged as a mental illness according to the World Health Organization.
TheXnator wrote:

Remember though, I will be deleting anything that the few people who can’t seem to take this appropriately post which is disrespectful or transphobic in any way, of anything that Sophia takes offense to.

Anything disrespectful or transphobic is disgusting and definitely good on you for moderating that, however removing a post because it offends someone seems a bit of a reach.

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Announcing something + big change 7 years 9 months ago #715268

Very Brave! Good Luck! Sophia	Patriot Offline Gold Boarder Freedom is the sovereign right of every American. Posts: 1844 Thanks received: 283 Karma: 4
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Announcing something + big change 7 years 9 months ago #715322

Do you like guys or girls?	Plankton Offline Gold Boarder Overpowering Forehead Posts: 1834 Thanks received: 567 Karma: 8
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Announcing something + big change 7 years 9 months ago #715389

Plankton wrote: Do you like guys or girls? I am mostly attracted to girls but willing to give guys a chanse	Sophia Offline Diamond Boarder I'll always be the last one standing Posts: 2854 Thanks received: 776 Karma: -2
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Announcing something + big change 7 years 9 months ago #715445

Morgan wrote:

however removing a post because it offends someone seems a bit of a reach.

i don't mean to start any drama but i find you saying this a bit hypocritical, i do remember you having onion remove the butthurt report i posted because it offended you, at least onion said that the butthurt report offended you and that's why he removed them, so you saying this looks quite hypocritical to me

if you were not offended by the butthurt i retract this whole statement and blame onion for explaining properly

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Announcing something + big change 7 years 9 months ago #715456

Morgan wrote:

TheXnator wrote:

I have seen some pretty disgusting comments on here, such as some people calling it a “joke” or an “illness”.

I completely agree with it being disgusting and should be condemned that people would call this a joke, it's just insensitive and rude. However, calling it an "illness" isn't factually incorrect - it's known as "gender dysphoria" which is acknowledged as a mental illness according to the World Health Organization.
TheXnator wrote:

Remember though, I will be deleting anything that the few people who can’t seem to take this appropriately post which is disrespectful or transphobic in any way, of anything that Sophia takes offense to.

Anything disrespectful or transphobic is disgusting and definitely good on you for moderating that, however removing a post because it offends someone seems a bit of a reach.

No offense but a number of times you asked me to remove a post because you got offended by it.

How ever i am guilty of it my self i remove posts if it offends me and often find a way to fit it within TOU. # corruption

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Announcing something + big change 7 years 9 months ago #715522

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Announcing something + big change 7 years 9 months ago #715611

may i ask how you knew you're a female given that you have male primary sexual characteristics and attracted to women? if you want to answer this feel free not to man	Roy Harper Offline Adept Boarder someone stole my legendary member Posts: 6857 Thanks received: 1950 Karma: 15
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Announcing something + big change 7 years 9 months ago #715618

Does that make you lesbian?	catboy sven ツ Offline Adept Boarder Respected Zarp Contributor Posts: 7199 Thanks received: 1545 Karma: -44
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Announcing something + big change 7 years 9 months ago #715622

Roy Harper wrote:

may i ask how you knew you're a female given that you have male primary sexual characteristics and attracted to women? if you want to answer this feel free not to man

i realised this as i never felt like i was supposed to be this way, this is not noticeable over the internet really as it is more obvious in my daily life but i always had a little more of a feminine touch to most things i do, it just took me a while as i always thought i was being weird and overthinking it. it just took me a long time to realise and a lot of thinking, and in the end going with what my feelings tell me

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Announcing something + big change 7 years 9 months ago #715623

Aspect wrote: Does that make you lesbian? technically yes	Sophia Offline Diamond Boarder I'll always be the last one standing Posts: 2854 Thanks received: 776 Karma: -2
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Announcing something + big change 7 years 9 months ago #715641

Muhammed Ali wrote: Rake wrote: What Am I? Easy mate, you're mentally ill and I'm not even being mean, just reading. inb4 deleted inb4 ban lmao	Denis Offline Diamond Boarder Posts: 2813 Thanks received: 1366 Karma: -49
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Announcing something + big change 7 years 9 months ago #715714

Granny wrote: Nutzu3650XL wrote: hey man, sorry for the trolling that got my posts deleted you're my friend and you have my full support, i hope you're not sad if you are here's a meme to cheer you up wtf is this and why is my name on that summer update sneak peak	Nutzu3650XL Offline Diamond Boarder Posts: 4105 Thanks received: 1544 Karma: 1
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Announcing something + big change 7 years 9 months ago #715963

i'm just gonna bump this back to the 1st page so people who have not yet read this will also be aware of it	Sophia Offline Diamond Boarder I'll always be the last one standing Posts: 2854 Thanks received: 776 Karma: -2
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Announcing something + big change 7 years 9 months ago #716038

Morgan wrote:

DeathRazor213 wrote:

Morgan wrote:

Brave of you to do this, while I don't think it's healthy I will be there to support you if you ever need me for anything.

what exactly is not healthy about it?
me wanting to have a body the same gender as i wish to be treated like and feel like?
i'd like to know why you think it isn't healthy

I could sit here and explain my viewpoint on the topic but I'd rather not cause un-needed drama.

TL;DR You do you, as I said I'd be there for you if you need me for anything.

you cant just say "I dont think its healthy" and then say "Dont wanna cause unneeded drama", like damn. You didn't even give a reason to your opinion, and you already waved your white flag and bailed. I thought as a good staff member, you learn to think about the stuff you say, BEFORE you actually say it.

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Announcing something + big change 7 years 9 months ago #716044

TheAp4ch3 wrote:

Morgan wrote:

DeathRazor213 wrote:

Morgan wrote:

Brave of you to do this, while I don't think it's healthy I will be there to support you if you ever need me for anything.

what exactly is not healthy about it?
me wanting to have a body the same gender as i wish to be treated like and feel like?
i'd like to know why you think it isn't healthy

I could sit here and explain my viewpoint on the topic but I'd rather not cause un-needed drama.

TL;DR You do you, as I said I'd be there for you if you need me for anything.

you cant just say "I dont think its healthy" and then say "Dont wanna cause unneeded drama", like damn. You didn't even give a reason to your opinion, and you already waved your white flag and bailed. I thought as a good staff member, you learn to think about the stuff you say, BEFORE you actually say it.

Check one-two pages after that, I clarified, think and read before you assume