TOPIC: Announcing something + big change

DeathRazor213 wrote: I will try to make this post as short as possible, for convenience sake.
I understand what you meant perfectly, not everyone can put their feelings into words flawlessly, you don't have to care what others think either.
And I am truly happy that you acknowledge some of the points I or some one else brought up.
But like I said in my previous long form post, everyone thinks they will happy or happier, but the sad truth is they almost never are.
I want to keep to my promise of wanting to keep this short so I will leave you with simple sentence that I came up with.
Don't sacrifice long term misery for short term happiness or clarity in your mind.
Also I have a suggestion for the future, instead of jumping straight to "SRS" or "HRT", just try cross dressing or use make up, anything really, to make yourself pass as a female and see the results, do you feel happier?

FluffyOP wrote:
i have had friends treat me like a female for a while, after i told my dad and he treated me like a girl for a while it did make me feel alot happier and more at home, so to answer that, yes, it does make me feel happier, it makes me feel like i am myself

I see, well I don't know what else to say, I can't really be your therapist to delve into your thoughts and see if this would be the best decision for you, neither am I academically qualified for that.
Still, I would advise you to read up on this more and maybe even visit a therapist, they help in certain cases if you find the right one for you.
If you are going to, look for someone who specializes in this field, they will know much better then your average PsyD or Therapist.
I wish you all the luck buddy and I hope you make the right decision for yourself.

DeathRazor213 wrote: I partially agree with Fluffy here about the short term long term happiness thing. Lots of people turn suicidal or develop some sort of problem because of sex changes
But then again this is a Coming Out post not a post where we should be posting things that could potentially make Deathrazor feel shitty about this. Let her do her own thing i know this community id widely opinion based but i dont think it's needed to make her feel like she's mentally ill or unhealthy because shes different. I might not believe in the transgender thing but i don't think this is right of you guys.

AyyLookItzGmad wrote: So a couple things on this, firstly what you think forums are used for?
Opinions, discussions, talking, etc...
What I voiced was one of the above, if you make a public post on a forum, you better expect someone to reply, it does not matter what the person intended the thread to be.
Neither was my post in any way inflammatory, I rarely post something constructive, most of my posts are filled with memery, hate speech and just plain old shit.
I will give you an analogy and tell me if you think this is comparable situation.
I make a thread and I say "I hate blacks", can I just tell everyone to shut up and respect my opinion, that this is just an announcement, however far from it is from reality, now I get the analogy is quite an extreme one at that, but I hope you understand what I mean.

Why are mods camping new posts and deleting them, our freedom of speech is not accepted here?
Are you expecting to get love and attention only?
This is not the real world bud, what if somebody has a diferrent opinion than you irl, are you gonna silence them?

Marcooo wrote:
Maybe act less like a fucking ass and maybe they won't get removed.
We have always had issues with your piss poor attitude. Make one of those posts again and you gonna sit out a day time out.
Last warning

Failed drama attempt: Do it again ur banned