jam wrote:
used the ban appeal template instead of the warn appeal one but doesnt make that much of a difference, yeh thats the most snowflake warn ive ever seen

The use of "gay" as an insult or as a negative thing is incredibly harmful, likely more so than you realise. It's something which because it's so commonly said, pushes a lot of LGBT+ youth into being forced into the closet, to harbour animosity towards themselves and can cause a great deal of internal conflict in a lot of people. I don't think that, unless you have experienced this yourself, you really have the right to make a judgement on such a thing, and I can tell you from my personal experience, it does affect people.
So no, this is not a "snowflake warn" and is in line with the
discrimination policy. Dutch did the correct thing here.