While i was digging in my Laptop , for any space taking apps , i noticed that i forgot to remove norton anti-virus i clearly opened it and it was all there ... working in the background , nothing in the tray menu , the task manager , it was a hidden processor , and IDFK why ! , i deleted it and it seemed the connection is back to Gmod , but still not TS3 for some reason ... probably a port fro TS3 .
But now , ill be in game , finally after i found the way to fix it !