Suketoudara wrote:
.uzi wrote:
The rules surrounding common courtesy are in place to ensure that ZARP should be a welcoming community for all. If all staff just let people say what they'd like about anyone or anything it would just go to shit. Personally, I don't punish people if I can easily distinguish if they're joking around or they're genuinely being disrespectful - it's often very easy to tell.
However, I don't really understand the point of your suggestion? We have an ethos in place for this kinda shit already and if someone's handing out excessive punishments for something that isn't even remotely disrespect or something similar, it can be brought up in a demote request?
Its when they bend the ethos for what they do not find offensive such as the word tranny however xnator isnt a fan of it so who is right in that situation? 10 staff let me say it but one doesnt but only the one staff punishes. Still fucked
For that specific example, "tranny" is considered a derogatory term so I don't see an issue with Xnator punishing you for it. In my opinion, the staff who are currently letting you off scot-free should really be giving you a verbal warning or ask you to stop.
But it's all contextual to be honest, I can speculate all day but it all comes down to the specifics of what happened at the time.