It sounds like Jordan spoke to you about your NLR multiple times, and you continued to break the rule. There wasn't any abuse here. I advise you take the staffs words into account next time and read the rules, from Jordan's story you were very disrespectful throughout the whole thing. Being Homophobic, Disrespectful, discriminative, etc.is totally not acceptable. You're lucky it was only a one day ban.
It would be helpful if there was proof, some sort of video, etc. If you get proof I'd suggest coming to myself or another lead team member, or making another report abuse.