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The Truth about me 6 years 9 months ago #648703

So I know this question comes up a lot to me. "Why do I not speak?" Answer is that i'm afraid. Not of talking. But of people hearing my voice. It's not what you think it will be. It does not suit me at all. I don't even like my voice. I have always been afraid of this but I just think I shouldn't care what people say and just talk for once. It's shocking really. Saying this but I think I find it as the best option for me. Everyone here has been a huge help and I don't even like socialising but everyone here has helped me so much. I just want to thank you all and I will start to talk. Not right away but in due time, when i'm not afraid.

Thank you for understanding and i'm sorry for hiding the truth to everyone. I don't deserve empathy or sympathy but it is for the best.

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The Truth about me 6 years 9 months ago #648704

Nobody likes their voice, it's normal	TheXnator Offline Former Owner "Save the tears for when we win!" Posts: 8122 Thanks received: 4300 Karma: -2023
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The Truth about me 6 years 9 months ago #648706

TheXnator wrote: Nobody likes their voice, it's normal What are you talking about? I love the sound of my voice, hence why I don't stop talking.	Dezmond Offline Senior Boarder El Autismo Posts: 768 Thanks received: 252 Karma: 16
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The Truth about me 6 years 9 months ago #648707

TheXnator wrote: Nobody likes their voice, it's normal Not everyone, i love my voice	el une spodermun Offline Mythical Boarder ex retard Posts: 5119 Thanks received: 1318 Karma: 19
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The Truth about me 6 years 9 months ago #648710

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The Truth about me 6 years 9 months ago #648711

Dezmond wrote: TheXnator wrote: Nobody likes their voice, it's normal What are you talking about? I love the sound of my voice, hence why I don't stop talking. Same, but I needed the free post	TheXnator Offline Former Owner "Save the tears for when we win!" Posts: 8122 Thanks received: 4300 Karma: -2023
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The Truth about me 6 years 9 months ago #648714

Most people don't like their own voice. Whenever I hear my voice in a recording I cringe. But that doesn't stop me. It's not like I can change my voice, and even if I could why would I? It would only be a lie. I understand why you don't like speaking. Who knows what others will think? Well let me tell you this: fuck em. If they don't like your voice then they can fuck off.	Raeker Offline Former Community Manager It hurts the best of us Posts: 9175 Thanks received: 6577 Karma: 213
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The Truth about me 6 years 9 months ago #648718

Raeker wrote:

Most people don't like their own voice. Whenever I hear my voice in a recording I cringe.

But that doesn't stop me. It's not like I can change my voice, and even if I could why would I? It would only be a lie.

I understand why you don't like speaking. Who knows what others will think? Well let me tell you this: fuck em. If they don't like your voice then they can fuck off.

You can change your voice, actually, but it is painful and expensive and not worth it at all.

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The Truth about me 6 years 9 months ago #648725

Grand Wizowd wrote: I bet it's cus you're a man and all. +1	Sada. Offline Mythical Boarder Confused and disgusted by the ban Posts: 5674 Thanks received: 3850 Karma: 263
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The Truth about me 6 years 9 months ago #648728

TBH i think many can agree with me, A lot of us do not like our own voice, when we hear it back. I personally hate how my voice sounds, but speaking is SOOOOO much easier than typing.	Anon_Gaming Offline Legendary Member #BritishCrumpet Posts: 1320 Thanks received: 580 Karma: 0
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The Truth about me 6 years 9 months ago #648732

I can relate	xInsaneSamurai Offline Diamond Boarder dddddd Posts: 2960 Thanks received: 623 Karma: 13
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The Truth about me 6 years 9 months ago #648751

Thank you for sharing Annie, I guess it required a lot of courage to say it.

Still, you should not be so hard with yourself, you had/have your reason for not talking, nobody will judge you. Your voice is not important here. What is important is that feel confident enough to actually to speak to us, to feel lighter and be happy.

Everyone is different. May your voice suits you or not, it's NOT for us to judge. You will still be the Annie we know and like

Have a good night !

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The Truth about me 6 years 9 months ago #648803

Never feel singled out or afraid about your choices, if you don't wanna speak that's entirely up to you - it's alright to feel worried of the outcome, just be yourself

No one in this community is yet to know what I sound like

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I always hate how I sound (and look) especially when I'm singing - love to sing cause it makes me feel better (singing releases a good-feeling chemical) but when I hear myself sing (via singing app or w.e) I drill my ears in - I just sound... terrible.

I just gotta suck it up - and I'm not saying you should, like I said, your voice, your choice

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The Truth about me 6 years 9 months ago #648815

Blocked wrote:

Back in 2014 when I first joined the community I never used my microphone, I had an extremely high voice for my age and wasn't too happy about it, which was one of the reasons I never was able to reach a lead team rank, according to some community managers back then, due to the fact that having a microphone was one of the top requirements to becoming lead team.

In 2015 however me and a friend who was equally shy about using his mic(Hitman Jerry) both encouraged each other about using our microphones, the first few sentences you say are the hardest, then it becomes much much easier, start off with talking to close friends, then normal internet friends, then hop on the server and start using your microphone

Even Max, the god tier community developer never used his mic back in the day, little bit of encouragement and he started using it more and more.

If you actually want to start using your mic, I wouldn't mind helping you out with some advice anxiety-wise and hopefully make you more comfortable while using your mic, I've helped out other community members with this and I wouldn't mind helping out.

Here's my steam link, offer is forever open, trust me when I say using your microphone is 10 times more fun and satisfying, the ability to express your emotions with your voice should be more than enough, give it some thought if you want.

added you to talk

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The Truth about me 6 years 9 months ago #648817

Annie, there is no need to be afraid to use your voice, you have it for a reason, and that reason is for it to be used and heard!
I often hear my own voice and think to myself: "Do I really sound this annoying?" but I still speak, because I know that a person's voice is meant to be heard,
in the end it is up to you whether you will decide to use your mic or not, just know that you don't need to be afraid

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The Truth about me 6 years 9 months ago #648825

Thank you everyone but what I mean is that my voice doesn't suit me at all. It's like a fear I have. I don't know how to get past it.	Annie Moonise Offline Legendary Member Ex Deathrun Server Owner Posts: 2691 Thanks received: 881 Karma: 20
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The Truth about me 6 years 9 months ago #648828

Annie Montana wrote: Thank you everyone but what I mean is that my voice doesn't suit me at all. It's like a fear I have. I don't know how to get past it. You're not the only one, never fear for it Annie	CrankyBot Offline Legendary Member Second Grade Soundboard Posts: 3930 Thanks received: 1173 Karma: 44
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The Truth about me 6 years 9 months ago #648837

You will get there, but seriously listen to my voice	JoeyRecon Offline Expert Boarder 自閉症 Posts: 1465 Thanks received: 414 Karma: 18
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The Truth about me 6 years 9 months ago #648842

I mean if you ever heard Smo, he sounds like 12 but he's a 22 years old 190cm black man	pigskin Offline User is blocked uwu Posts: 4807 Thanks received: 1440 Karma: -12
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The Truth about me 6 years 9 months ago #648844

Annie Montana wrote:

Thank you everyone but what I mean is that my voice doesn't suit me at all. It's like a fear I have. I don't know how to get past it.

i used to be afraid too, i was afraid of speaking aswell but i did it anyway because i did not care anymore what people thought about me, i realised that if they decide to call me immature or annoying just of my voice alone i knew they weren't worth my time and i just ignored them, i'm pretty sure you have friends who won't care what you sound like and they would be happy just knowing you are comfortable enough you are willing to speak to them.

just don't be afraid, let the people you trust most hear your voice first, get comfortable with speaking and then move on to other people, you'll get there.

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