zarp_smashmouth_avatar wrote:
Agebt wrote:
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Agebt wrote:
IIIlllIIIllIIIllIIIllIIIll wrote:
MsRevine wrote:
Most of these sound very nice, it's a bit saddening to me that some people can only think about drinking though! Thought I'd hear more about family and etc...
Stay safe and don't drink too much!
Also don't drink and drive!!!
Its growing up lmao. Xmas is just another way to spend more money than you can afford and it gives you the excuse to drink to excess without judgement cause "hey its xmas". Also with how life is and the world around us can you seriously blame people for being down then drowning sorrows so they can join in with the others pretending everything is okay because its xmas?
People who find the world as depressing as you explain can only blame themselves for caring about dumb shit and feeling pity dor themselves.
Ironic thing is life is going as well for myself recently (even when the shity stuff happens its better managed) and I believe I'm on the up. But from what I see its a lot of darkness for people, people who are trying they're best but simply can't see differently because they are surrounded with it.
That's great to hear man, I wasn't referring to you in my post if you thought that. But nowadays there are so many snowflakes and self-diagnosing people who just pretend to care about dumb shit for attention and people who just constantly beat themselves up for stupid reasons.
People who refuse to lift themself up and would much rather just be alone and depressed all while feeling pity in hopes of something changing instead of being the change.
Although I agree to an extent in regards to people helping themselves its not that simple because the spectrum of mental illness is massive. Don't get me wrong I see it all the time with people who decide to wallow instead of attempting to help themselves so my question to you is what if someone who is mentally ill but is taking steps and doing their damnedest for self improvement but due to whatever condition they are suffering from keeps knocking them back, they still pull themselves back up but when they step forward they get knocked back for reasons out of their control. What do you suggest for that situation? I'd also like to ask when do you get to decide who is suffering and who is a self wallowing snowflake? To me every single person is different and thinks about stuff differently and some stuff that may not bother you or I may feel absolutely dreadful to them. That goes back to my point of how huge of a spectrum mental illness is.
Anyway unless you have questions back I shall read your answers and thank you your post as I do not wish to derail what should be a much happier thread.
I’m not neglecting the fact that there are people with real problems and try their best to get the best out of it yet still get knocked down, I am however stating the fact that there are people that choose to be victims uncounciously or even consciously out of the need for attention and people feeling pity for them. I am aware of many people with problems that cant just be solved by thinking differently whether its a problem with money, actual past trauma or the law. I am simply calling out people that have ‘problems’ that can be solved if they just got out of the depressed brain bubble that they got their selves in.
P.S for any mod that sees this, we are having a constructive and civilized argument and i have no ill intentions against any of these people.