So much drama.
After reading most of this, why don't you get up your activity and proof you really want to have that rank again and get permission from the leadteam to apply straight to let's say Super Admin? And from that point you can work your way back to HA.
From what I've seen, they've given you multiple chances, even though It might've not been fair for you during that time because of those personal issues, they did gave you alot of time, more than anyone else got as far I remember.
Why don't you guys get on Teamspeak and talk about a solution; first part of this might be a example of how you could deal with the situation.
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