Your mistake was saying that word with Para around, doesn't take it in the slightest if it ever gets said around him so what I suggest is that you apologise and maybe the ban could be lowered or removed if you're lucky.

Your mistake was saying that word with Para around, doesn't take it in the slightest if it ever gets said around him so what I suggest is that you apologise and maybe the ban could be lowered or removed if you're lucky.