You argued with me last night claiming that throwing an incendiary in the nether was not a KOSable act, which it clearly is, and were not convinced at all by me.

Your justification was that you "were checking if the T trap was activated", sure, that's fair enough, maybe with a smoke grenade, but with an incendiary, it is certainly not acceptable.

I fear that if you were in a moderator position while this all went down, you would have probably warned me and slayed me even though I was not in the wrong, you should probably work on your server knowledge a bit more before applying.