Lul man, people have been CM banned for bullying over steam but it's ok because you've done a lot giving up your free time (which therein you had nothing better to do with,) to police the server.
I can't comment on this truly because I've done nothing for the server so my contributions here hold little merit according to those who decide who's opinions are important and whos aren't.
But in a completely opinion free zone I'm going to list what you did wrong:
- Harassment
- Joking about rape
- Being extremely rude about someone's gender
- Being a fucking creep dude
I forigve you!