You are a good guy in game and you have a good gametime on server 1 but you can improve it on server 2. For the question how deal with a disrespectful player you can give a verbal warning and if he continues you gag/mute and warn him, if he continues you can kick him and contact an admin. For the ghosting: Ghosting is when a dead player/spectator tell informations to an alive player and can change the outcome of the game.
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