RDM and NLR is not the same, just wanted to point that out.

RDM = Random Deathmatch = killing people without any RP reason, example: Shot a random guy on the streets.
NLR = New Life Rule = You can't return to the place killed before there has passed at least 3 minutes.

NLR doens't count if you die from fall dmg or accident propkill etc...

You say that you haven't played that long so you should probably play a little longer first.
(Remember this is my opinion)

-support