Another thing is when you get RDM'd, you don't always have to punish the user. I know its frustrating but when the server is recuperating, you need to stop trying to have every user punished because they RDM'd you once. Because that's the way you scare off users. You've been kind of fine since you came back but you need to stop bitching every time someone RDMs you and sometimes just explain to the user to not do that instead of straight getting them punished.