Jesus, super sorry to hear about this brother. I really do appreciate you opening up about it though, takes some balls to open up about something that is having such a devastating effect on your life, not something you hear about all that often either. I agree it shouldn't have been used at all as it was very distasteful to use especially as someone with power in the community, quite disappointed by how it was handled, a simple apology to Jam would have been sufficient.
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