I did not get warned for my attitude, rather for killing a T-buddy who simply betrayed me/teamed and therefor lost his right to complain about me ending his griefing.

If you disregard context and warn and slay me for something done out of self-defense/grief prevention (which is allowed the way i read the rules) my attitude most definitely wont improve. Especially if you the play the role of a hypocrite saying I need to let staff handle it when they aren't handling it properly to begin with, they often take part in this themselves even though it is a violation of the rules.