I've gotten verbal warnings for saying cancer and such before, not in a degrading way, just saying something is cancer. And I feel like too many Dutch people get away with this just because it's "how they speak".
it kinda is how we speak though
I get that, but on the Faroe Islands, we use the N-word casually when talking about black people or to black people. So by using that logic, I could be saying the N-word in casually on the server but that could offend people.