Well first of all, you do not need to make multiple refund requests as a respose to your primary post, edit your primary post and replace it with the refund request.
Secondly, I am pretty sure it wasn't decided on whether people would actually be refunded for rule breaks and a long with you not having proof of this or a video that lead up to the event, no one will know if it really was rdm.
Just because Swordplay is a admin, does not mean he'll be 100% truthful in this case