Since I can't handle it, I'll at least give my oppinion on it. Generally speaking a criminal can kill a police officer that follows them around for an extensive amount of time, as ruled out in 2.9:
2.9 Self Defense Against Police - You may only defend yourself against cops that are actively trying to arrest or attack you whilst you are wanted, this includes cops that are following you around for extended amounts of time.
In this situation however, you guys were still engaged in a coinflip, since BeepBeep hasn't given you the reward, yet. He wanted to send you a trade request (he even message you with his intentions). In the footage, you can even see him failing to send you requests.
He didn't have an arrest baton or tazer out, so I really don't see an active attempt of arrest here. He also followed you for less than half a minute. You didn't even tell him to stop following you using /me, so I can kind of see where the warning came from.
He could've used the /trade command or Tab menu. He clearly saw that I was trying to get away from him, he was just following me. He also changed from shop owner to FBI when I equipped my gluon.