Sony WH-1000XM3
My friend has one, and it was amazing. It might be a little expensive, but I just have no words on how good that headset was. You can skip, pause, control volume and all that on the headset itself, on one of the ears. You can also change it so you cannot hear anything, or you can only hear voices of both yourself and others that are talking to you, or no noise canceling.
I would recommend reading more on it here:
www.sony.com/electronics/headband-headphones/wh-1000xm3