Kyber wrote:
You don't show much confidence with that last sentence at the end. You can ways prove yourself to be the bigger person if someone holds a grudge.
When you object in the meetings for something you think is fair and everybody hates you for "delaying" the meeting. That's an oof. I am being the bigger person but keeping calm (which I didn't do in the past) and not let them get to me. I don't see how that shows lack of confidence but that's your own personal opinion (I even say "but there's always a chance")