You were breaking the TOU by following someone constantly into rooms,
9 - Don't follow people around channels, even if it's a public channel. If they move, you don't follow them unless they want you to.
:/
Though telling you to neck yourself was a bit much you were also breaking the rules so I can see why he said it.
He thought that I was disrespecting him when I wasn't so i wanted to make sure that he doesnt get hurt