Ashur. wrote:
If Nick asked for the link to be sent this was his fault.

I didn't ask for the link, I clearly said he CAN send it to me if it's not breaking TOU
You gave consent that a link can be sent to you. You specified that it must not break TOU though. The victim did not know if it broke TOU and so went through TOU to check if it met that condition. He didn't see anything that he might be at risk of breaking and thus sent it to you. A 24 hours ban was not a proper action to take if you believe that it broke TOU.