TOPIC: Bullying never stops, I can't take this shit anymo

Aspect wrote: I love streaming because i get to know awesome people, but bullies from my school come to ruin every single moment i enjoy.

Man there are other ways to get to know people, not only by streaming.

Don't listen to anyone on this thread telling you just to take in what their saying and walk past them. Fuck that, do something about it, either tell your school or something. Your school isn't gonna not believe you and send you back to class without talking to you and the people involved, and whoever says they do that is a lying.

Try become friends with one of them. I have done this, and they don't bother me much anymore.

Talk to someone like a parent. One suggestion I have for you is that you should start going to the gym, i'm sure you'll feel way better with yourself. Just try it.

I remember I got bullied majorly when I was younger.
The best thing to do it just ignore it. Be yourself. And one day you'll make friends for who you are.
You wont even remember those people when youre older. Just focus on school work and your youtube account/streams (You can disable comments on your youtube videos, I dont know if you can do it for streams).
But just remember, never retaliate. Be the better person of the situation.
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All you have to remember is:
Karma is a bitch. Most bullies will end up as a cleaner or something, because its proven that most bullies have small brains. So basically, you keep learning, concentrate on school NOT on the bullies, and if they come in your stream and shit, either you block them OR if you think you will get them into more trouble, let somebody talk to them. Let somebody bigger threaten them and teach them the way life works.

Bullies are people that are insecure about themselves. They are the people that have to consume all the alcohol, Weed and general drugs in the world every day to keep living. You are better than that. You will have a nice job and the people that bully you maybe even have work for you.

There's a great joke about bullies, I really love it because it's so true.

It goes like this:
"To this day, the boy that used to bully me at school still takes my lunch money.
On the plus side, he makes great subway sandwiches."

The bully that bullied me back in the days is now a weed-addict that got kicked out of his parents house and has got a shit job with a shit pay. KARMA.

Bullying is a childish behaviour, and you shouldn't take it personal.
The thing they want from you is some kind of reaction, and I believe that if you stop reacting to them, you will take the fun out of it.
If you would like someone to speak to about stuff like this, you are more than welcome to add and message me on steam.

It's pathetic how you handle this.
But then again some people can take it, others can't.

Ignoring bullies pisses them off but its funny to see there reaction. Eventually they just give up if you ignore them enough

How the hell you can ignore them if they keep pushing you around, calling you with names, annoying you. There is NO way to ignore them.

ronnie pickering wrote: No need for that kind of behaviour, bullying can be both physically and mentally stressing of the body so it can wear anyone down.

Bullies look for a reaction, some do it because they have a hard time themselves and it's their way of dealing with it, projecting their problems and low self-esteem onto you. Other bullies does it for the "reaction of an outsider", it's survival of the fittest and they see you as weak and not part of the group so they try to make you distance yourself from it.

My advice is the same as some of the others; ignore it. If you don't react it takes the fun out of it and taking the fun out of it makes it boring so they find new things to do or other people to bully. It's hard for others to do something about people getting bullied because a lot of people, even if having been bullied themselves, have different experiences, different advice and different outcomes.

Unfortunately being bullied can also be a slippery slope to being a bully yourself. They bully you for being weak, so when you see someone weaker you end up being unpleasant to them. Just be carefull.
Good luck.

SarahAnne wrote: fuck that shit break out the copper pipe and send them into next week

JamesStoneZarp wrote:
I've said this like 3 times already. You probably are 13-14 I'm assuming. Just stand up to those little shit heads, they'll stop fucking with you if you learn to do something about it.

Granny wrote:
you crack me up granny XD

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SexKitten wrote: lol would be a bit suspicious walking into school with a copper pipe would it not but i slightly regret sending that bastard to hospital for a wee bit because the fucker just got his mum to call the school and get me kicked off the rugby team recently and its just a turn up if you want thing

Granny wrote: i am 16, almost 17 and trust me, they don't stop

JamesStoneZarp wrote: I was 13 when I left school, I am 15 now. I left because of bullying and the shit education system. I am home-educated and since then my life has been better it, was around about a year ago that they forgot about me and just left me alone. I know that what I did was the coward way out. but if it makes my life better then why can't I? They don't message me anymore on Facebook and on my YouTube. One of the them is even one of my closest friends now who I ride BMX with. Turns out he dislikes the people who bullied me. I now have a big group of friends who would defend me when ever I am with them and it's like I never was bullied.

I got some tips and tricks for ya:

Physical assaults: Hit them back

Mentally assaults: Litteraly say yes to everything. You gay? yes! You like to suck a big fat ****? YES!!!!
You love my mom? YES! They will get mentally assaulted by you in that case


But this is not how life goes dude. You have just 1 life, not more. You want to make the best of it? then you gotta come with a plan. Making a post on the forums won't help much. YOU, YES YOU need to fix this problem.

I've bullied A LOT of people in my school. Do I feel good about it? hell no. But I still enjoy my life as much as I can by studying hard and chilling with friends!

Try hitting up the gym btw. Getting muscles is not a bad idea at all.
Having bad teeth? ---> orthodontist
Feeling weak? ---> Gym
Having a lot zits? --> POP THOSE ZITS
Feeling fat? ---> eat less and go sport a lot more.



JUST DO IT! I believe you can do this.


GL!

SexKitten wrote:
That is how we do it in old Ireland. You see someone messing with another person; brick their house.
See someone hurting someone? Take a pipe to their head and rob their shoelaces.
If someone messes with you, either find someone to help you or just kill them yourself (Don't actually kill them just hurt them)
And if they still don't get the message, tell someone like your teacher or your parents!

I can remember my past, I have had my teeth done in from someone punching me in the face, I have been called names that you couldn't even imagine like "Granny licker" and "Carpet muncher" but I kept going, and that is what you should do! Keep going and don't stop because you seem to be at a very low point in life, meaing, it only gets better!

P.S. When I was Admin doing F1s for you, you seemed like a very nice and intelligent guy. Don't let some idiots change you. And I REALLY recommend finding a good band to listen to since music can really help you go into another world and motivate you! For example: I listen to the Beatles all the time! And loads of other people! So good luck!

Here is a song called "Getting Better" by The Beatles!

Getting Better

-Jayo