TOPIC: Bullying (From Experince)

I'm always here to talk to anyone who might have some problems or issues in life, I've been through my fair share of shit (even though I haven't been bullied, I've been around people that have been bullied).

Anyways, thanks for this Jordan. Although it's not a "self-help" forum, it doesn't hurt to help others with words of kindness and advice on bullying and how to deal with it.

Nutzu3650XL wrote:
^Every day.

Being called names on the internet isn't bullying, it happens all the time, not like you'll ever meet them anyways.

i wonder how is that even related to a gaming forum
anyway, if someone bullies you, beat him up, he is probably weak and doing it to make him feel better

zackz11 wrote:
This IS NOT about cyber bullying. Have you even read the title or the thread? No? Whewl you fucked up.

TheAp4ch3 wrote:
Stop bullying me man.

To answer all of you guys who is asking why I done this, This is basicly me giving you words to your head on how to handle stuff.

Just saying that violence may solve problems, but it can make things worse. Violence may make people afraid of you so who would dare to make friends with someone who has done something bad. Maybe the bullying stops, but there may be consequences. It's possible to get criminal registery when acutally trying to make things better with violence. When i got bullied at school ALOT someday i just lost control . It didn't turn out well for me. I got expelled from school.It didn't stop the bullying.

As a gilded member of the bully community I feel we should have our say on these matters. Every single time a member of ours conflicts with another human being we always seem to be labelled as the bad guys, always made out to be some evil, cold hearted, apathetic human being unable to feel empathy or any positive emotion for that matter.

I come here to tell you otherwise, just because we're sometimes physically imposing or popular in certain circles at school or in other social areas does not mean we're bad people. Here's a prime example of the labelling we "bullies" suffer on a common day to day basis. I was standing in the lunch line at school, I personally really enjoy the meals the schools serve while my friends like to go out for lunch. I noticed I didn't have enough to get the dessert I wanted to so I asked a fellow pupil of the school for 50 cents. He began shaking and spoke with an apprehensive tone, "S-Sure h-h-here you go" he said. He then ran off while screaming "BULLY!!! HE'S A BULLY!!" almost crying for some reason. The pupil could've simply said no, he could've told me to take a hike but because of my 7,9, 600lb stature I could only assume he was intimidated by me.

Here's another prime example of bullying. My mother is a bully. When I came home from school she ordered me to do my homework when all I wanted to do was eat cheetos and browse the internet. I felt hurt, both emotionally and physically as she disarmed me of my cheetos and began throwing them at me. This left me knowing what a true bully is.

The way you all seem to be talking makes me think people here use the victim card way too much. Unless your school does not have a legitimate discipline system and is playing favorites, than chances are your actions were far more serious than the "bully", especially judging by what some of you are saying about it happening continuously. In most cases of bullying, the "victim" is either doing something to expose themselves to these bullies, or they did something to provoke them, whether it was unintentional or intentional, and chances are these "victims" are refusing to critique themselves in these situations. I'm sorry, but these wild stories about people randomly attacking you and "breaking their leg" just seem all fantasy to me.

You can't tell me that your school is going to give you, the "victims", a harsher punishment than the "bully" for self-defense when supposedly they are the ones that started it. These stories you all come up with just aren't suitable for a forum like this, because people, like myself, are going to have a hard time taking them seriously simply because of the nature of how you all write them out. You need to take this to some sort of bully hot-line, or your parents/teachers, not a gaming forum.

Well might as well since this thread exists tell you what happened with me the bully was forever attacking me calling me a retard etc it took me a year to stand up to him he started taking the piss out of my family and stabbed him in the back with my pen he had to go to hospital i got suspended for a few days but other than him hating me ever since he hasnt tryed anything

Great stories guys!

You guys are something else lol

Great guy Granny!

Great post, Much people can learn from this!

Bumping this!

Ryryster wrote:
Don't mess with ryryster... Lesson learnt. xD

I've said it many times before and I'll say it again
SexKitten wrote:

SexKitten wrote:
This here is the Irish way. If someone messes with someone, you tell your brother/friends and you go light their house on fire after beating the living Jesus out of them!

There's good things and bad things about me seeing this thread once again:

The good thing is that of course this should be addressed. Two people that I have known have commited suicide, one where i actually found out about it this week.

The bad thing though, obviously if you read the thread again you look at the replies, and I was just blown away once again, what bullshit some people write like "why is there another thread" and "bullying is not real lul". Fuuuucking hell. This reminds me how fucked in the head some people are. These people really base their opinion on negativity ALL the fucking time. HOW can you actually be negative on a thread that has got a therapeutic aspect behind it. You can't talk shit if you don't experience the real thing. This is not how it works.
This is like saying "oh that fighter in the ring.... Well he has taken a few bumps and his face looks destroyed, but i am sure it won't damage him." Well take a step into the ring then and see it for yourself.

It's either that people didn't experience it, or that they actually experience it and think it's OK to act all tough on the internet. Fucking ridiculous what kind of mindset some people have.