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what do i do with my life 6 years 3 weeks ago #1042138

League will do that to ya. Find a different game that you equally enjoy (R6: Siege) for example. Find a group or a person you enjoy playing said game with. The biggest BIGGEST thing I could say is to start working out, it does wonders for your mental health and just makes you feel better overall. If it's social interaction you're seeking then talk to people at the gym even, ask the personal trainers there for advice based on your goals it's an easy gateway question that can lead to conversation.
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what do i do with my life 6 years 3 weeks ago #1042190

Could go leedsfest sorle
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what do i do with my life 6 years 3 weeks ago #1042200

Hey man, I was in a similar situation for many months some time ago, so I think my advice might help, but remember everyone is different, and perhaps tou can't do what I did.

A very good advice is to pick up a hobby, one preferably one that stimulates the intellectual part of you; a science perhaps you find interesting, or anything wlse that won't go away the moment you stop doing it. Debating and doing research did it for me, and I'm still bothering myself with this hobby.

Another tip would be just mechanically doing your job/work/assignments. It's tough doing them, and alot of times you won't have the courage, but it will really help sometimes with getting your mind off these unproductive thoughts that impede you.

Serious tip, quit most big social media site you're on; these sort of sites has been proven to cause depression because unconsciously you do compare your own life and your own actions to others who post only the best parts of their life, rather than the mundane parts of their life, which makes up for a very unfair comparison. Just keep the messaging part only, if you can. For example, I deleted my Facebook account and kept Messenger so I can keep talking to people I want.

Also, if you're in the mood to play games all the time, make sure you do some work first and tire yourself with something, preferably that hobby you *might've* picked up. Another choice would be just doing chores.

Hang in there man, our generation suffers alot from this. Love you lots dude, xoxo.

Edit: I just want to add something I once heard someday randomly, I can't even remember where.
Personally, I'm a very ambitious person and I can't stand being mediocre or not making an impact on whatever I'm doing, and that includes IRL. However, its really hard to actually make an impact you can see/notice IRL. What some guy once said though, is that we're all in this together, sort of like a bubble. Humanity doesn't go forward by a single person or figure, it never did. Some people just poke that bubble with their stick, and hope it makes an impact. These are the people who have written history or influenced it in a significant way. We're all just as insignificant, and you don't have to be special to make a change. Just determined.
Might seem irrelevant, but I'm just telling you how I saw stuff, perhaps it's relevant for you man.
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what do i do with my life 6 years 3 weeks ago #1042209

As someone who was in a similar situation with Overwatch, and I used to be jobless, very unfit and overweight and depressed because I provided nothing even though I tried my best

Get a job, start buying things you want, make you into the you that you want to be, even if that means quitting ZARP for a while, only you can make yourself happy and it's a sad fact but when you reach happiness it feels amazing, hit the gym, get tinder for ego boost, play fun games like Red Dead or Spider-Man or just new Steam games YOU want to try

I bought myself a whole ass switch when I was fixing myself because I just fuckin' wanted one

As well as I offer myself as a friend that's always open to talking, I love meeting new people on the TeamSpeak and considering we've been acquaintances for ages, it'd be nice to get to know you
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what do i do with my life 6 years 3 weeks ago #1042353

this is so sad

have you tried not being sad?
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what do i do with my life 6 years 3 weeks ago #1042368

Let me give you some advice how to make friends in real life.

You need to find a hobby, which means you find motivation to make friends but also do something you like. Once this chapter is completed everything will go smooth. Trust me, it works.
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what do i do with my life 6 years 3 weeks ago #1042408

Message me anytime bigman im going through alot of shit as well I dont like myself and I feel left out and full on depressed, whenever you want hmu on steam.
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what do i do with my life 6 years 3 weeks ago #1042414

Can some people just not post, like depression isn't this easily curable thing, some people get natural periods or constant periods of depression, this is due to a chemical imbalance in their brain.

But some advice is to getting better is to not listen to your brain and do stuff that you would never usually do, your brain often works against you (at least in my experience) and the way I helped my depression was by socializing and doing stuff I wouldn't usually do, you'll get to a point anyways where you feel a lot better about yourself.
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what do i do with my life 6 years 3 weeks ago #1042432

Find yourself a hobby, Like riding bikes, Skating etc, Something that you can continuously do and make friends by doing that and learn tricks etc.
We ain't had the best past man but please add me on steam if you want to talk to someone about it. I'm always here and i know what it's like. Whatever is said between us stays between us
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what do i do with my life 6 years 3 weeks ago #1042440

I would recommend joining a sports club e.g football. It is a great way to socialise and work as a team, trust me, you will find purpose in life this way.

And it may be hard to believe but playing too much video games makes you feel depressed I don’t know why, it makes me feel useless. So just try play less as well
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what do i do with my life 6 years 3 weeks ago #1042476

I'd say the best thing you could possibly do is find something to do, such as going to the gym imo, or you can find a sport such a football for example that you enjoy and are passionate about, and focus on it.Taking a break from games and focusing on life is one of the best things you can do if depressed as tbh it's all pointless at the end of the day it only makes it worse, you need to find something that you enjoy doing irl that is beneficial to you in real life. You got my steam,number and sc if you need to talk.
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what do i do with my life 6 years 3 weeks ago #1042477

Just binge watch anime.
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what do i do with my life 6 years 3 weeks ago #1042479

Watch hentai with me !
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what do i do with my life 6 years 3 weeks ago #1042566

Have you ever thought of streaming? You're a really good league player and you clearly love the game a lot, maybe you should give it a try. Or try a new sport?
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what do i do with my life 6 years 3 weeks ago #1042691

I'd say just smoke a shit ton of weed eventually you'll be good hopefully

This is me being 100% serious by the way but I'm pretty sure I've never been depressed so idk if it will work all I know is all my friends reported that once they started heavily smoking weed their problems and negative thoughts became way more insignificant and once they took a long break from weed they felt much happier with their lives overall.

EDIT: Forgot to mention there are definitely healthier ways to deal with depression like I'm pretty sure what Satan said is a proper sick method but I'm just saying in my own experience with my very close friends weed has been pretty good for em.
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what do i do with my life 6 years 3 weeks ago #1042699

RealDenis wrote:
I'd say just smoke a shit ton of weed eventually you'll be good hopefully

This is me being 100% serious by the way but I'm pretty sure I've never been depressed so idk if it will work all I know is all my friends reported that once they started heavily smoking weed their problems and negative thoughts became way more insignificant and once they took a long break from weed they felt much happier with their lives overall.

EDIT: Forgot to mention there are definitely healthier ways to deal with depression like I'm pretty sure what Satan said is a proper sick method but I'm just saying in my own experience with my very close friends weed has been pretty good for em.
www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC5149055/
cannabissupport.com.au/news/weed-watch-b...epression-with-weed/
learnaboutmarijuanawa.org/factsheets/mentalhealth.htm
The relationship between cannabis use and measures of anxiety and depression in a sample of college campus cannabis users and non-users post state legalization in Colorado wrote:
Results indicate a relationship between casual cannabis use and scoring highly for depressive symptomatology on the Center for Epidemiologic Studies Depression Scale. There were no significant relationships between cannabis use and scores on the State-Trait Anxiety Inventory.
http://learnaboutmarijuanawa.org/factsheets/mentalhealth.htm wrote:
However, while marijuana may seem to help ease depression before the effects of the drug wear off, after that, smoking marijuana may make depression worse. Those who use marijuana have been shown to have higher levels of depression and depressive symptoms than those who do not use marijuana (Lev-Ran et al., 2014; Pacek et al., 2013). This risk may increase for users who use both marijuana and alcohol (Pacek et al., 2013).
this doesn't sound like good advice ngl
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what do i do with my life 6 years 3 weeks ago #1042701

dankek wrote:
RealDenis wrote:
I'd say just smoke a shit ton of weed eventually you'll be good hopefully

This is me being 100% serious by the way but I'm pretty sure I've never been depressed so idk if it will work all I know is all my friends reported that once they started heavily smoking weed their problems and negative thoughts became way more insignificant and once they took a long break from weed they felt much happier with their lives overall.

EDIT: Forgot to mention there are definitely healthier ways to deal with depression like I'm pretty sure what Satan said is a proper sick method but I'm just saying in my own experience with my very close friends weed has been pretty good for em.
www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC5149055/
cannabissupport.com.au/news/weed-watch-b...epression-with-weed/
learnaboutmarijuanawa.org/factsheets/mentalhealth.htm
The relationship between cannabis use and measures of anxiety and depression in a sample of college campus cannabis users and non-users post state legalization in Colorado wrote:
Results indicate a relationship between casual cannabis use and scoring highly for depressive symptomatology on the Center for Epidemiologic Studies Depression Scale. There were no significant relationships between cannabis use and scores on the State-Trait Anxiety Inventory.
http://learnaboutmarijuanawa.org/factsheets/mentalhealth.htm wrote:
However, while marijuana may seem to help ease depression before the effects of the drug wear off, after that, smoking marijuana may make depression worse. Those who use marijuana have been shown to have higher levels of depression and depressive symptoms than those who do not use marijuana (Lev-Ran et al., 2014; Pacek et al., 2013). This risk may increase for users who use both marijuana and alcohol (Pacek et al., 2013).
this doesn't sound like good advice ngl
to be honest you are probably right I'd definitely listen to dankek since my reasoning was purely anecdotal but it seems like there is actually scientific evidence to suggest that I'm wrong as fuck xd
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what do i do with my life 6 years 3 weeks ago #1042711

RealDenis wrote:
dankek wrote:
RealDenis wrote:
I'd say just smoke a shit ton of weed eventually you'll be good hopefully

This is me being 100% serious by the way but I'm pretty sure I've never been depressed so idk if it will work all I know is all my friends reported that once they started heavily smoking weed their problems and negative thoughts became way more insignificant and once they took a long break from weed they felt much happier with their lives overall.

EDIT: Forgot to mention there are definitely healthier ways to deal with depression like I'm pretty sure what Satan said is a proper sick method but I'm just saying in my own experience with my very close friends weed has been pretty good for em.
www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC5149055/
cannabissupport.com.au/news/weed-watch-b...epression-with-weed/
learnaboutmarijuanawa.org/factsheets/mentalhealth.htm
The relationship between cannabis use and measures of anxiety and depression in a sample of college campus cannabis users and non-users post state legalization in Colorado wrote:
Results indicate a relationship between casual cannabis use and scoring highly for depressive symptomatology on the Center for Epidemiologic Studies Depression Scale. There were no significant relationships between cannabis use and scores on the State-Trait Anxiety Inventory.
http://learnaboutmarijuanawa.org/factsheets/mentalhealth.htm wrote:
However, while marijuana may seem to help ease depression before the effects of the drug wear off, after that, smoking marijuana may make depression worse. Those who use marijuana have been shown to have higher levels of depression and depressive symptoms than those who do not use marijuana (Lev-Ran et al., 2014; Pacek et al., 2013). This risk may increase for users who use both marijuana and alcohol (Pacek et al., 2013).
this doesn't sound like good advice ngl
to be honest you are probably right I'd definitely listen to dankek since my reasoning was purely anecdotal but it seems like there is actually scientific evidence to suggest that I'm wrong as fuck xd
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RealDenis wrote:
I'd say just smoke a shit ton of weed eventually you'll be good hopefully

This is me being 100% serious by the way but I'm pretty sure I've never been depressed so idk if it will work all I know is all my friends reported that once they started heavily smoking weed their problems and negative thoughts became way more insignificant and once they took a long break from weed they felt much happier with their lives overall.

EDIT: Forgot to mention there are definitely healthier ways to deal with depression like I'm pretty sure what Satan said is a proper sick method but I'm just saying in my own experience with my very close friends weed has been pretty good for em.
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