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Announcing something + big change 6 years 7 months ago #714667

Hello, first of all I'd like to say that this is a very touchy subject for me and it's hard to talk about for me, but seeing as this will have to hit the light of day sometime anyway i decided to get it over with and just announce it, so here goes

As most of you know I am a guy, born a guy and grew up a guy, but for a good 4-5 years I have been struggling with various things, them being: depression, divorce from parents, fights between friends and losing many friends, and the biggest of them all, "what am I?".

so for 4 - 5 years I have been thinking about this, and a little over a month ago I have figured it out and thus made my decision.
It's hard to explain but, I am a girl, yes my body is male, but not for long, I am going to talk to my doctors about a sex-change and wish to be an actual girl, no, this is not a joke as several of the people I have told this so far have asked, I am 100% serious.

so far my real name is "Wesley" but this will not be my name for long, I will soon be going by the name "Sophia" you can say Sofie, Sophie, or something similar, whichever is convenient for you, I hereby also ask of all those who have read and care to treat me like a female.

Thank you for reading ~Sophia~

if there are any questions for me regarding this feel free to ask
If people cannot respect this decision of mine I wish they do not have any contact with me at all

~~Notice : apologies for grammar, my grammar cat is working~~

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Announcing something + big change 6 years 7 months ago #714668

Thank you for coming out about this man - I appreciate it massively	Raeker Offline Former Community Manager It hurts the best of us Posts: 9175 Thanks received: 6577 Karma: 213
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Announcing something + big change 6 years 7 months ago #714682

Shows a lot of confidence to come out about this, but you'll be supported no matter what <3	TheXnator Offline Former Owner "Save the tears for when we win!" Posts: 8122 Thanks received: 4300 Karma: -2023
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Announcing something + big change 6 years 7 months ago #714683

i'm not going to be bad, but posting this stuff is risky and you have guts to post this on a public forum. Gl Sophie	smo Offline Gold Boarder I really need to change my password Posts: 2728 Thanks received: 571 Karma: -21
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Announcing something + big change 6 years 7 months ago #714695

Smo wrote: i'm not going to be bad, but posting this stuff is risky and you have guts to post this on a public forum. Gl Sophie	Wells Offline Expert Boarder ♡ Bopper ♡ Posts: 1511 Thanks received: 254 Karma: 22
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Announcing something + big change 6 years 7 months ago #714696

Hi Sophie, I hope to still receive the dank memes! Best regards, Roy. Message me if you need anything, you know you can talk to me flikker	Roy Harper Offline Adept Boarder someone stole my legendary member Posts: 6857 Thanks received: 1950 Karma: 15
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Announcing something + big change 6 years 7 months ago #714698

Smo wrote: i'm not going to be bad, but posting this stuff is risky and you have guts to post this on a public forum. Gl Sophie	troublemakerrrrrr Offline Expert Boarder Lenny’s Posts: 1046 Thanks received: 130 Karma: 2
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Announcing something + big change 6 years 7 months ago #714701

I hope no one will be bothering u about this in game and your really brave to do this espically in a public platform but other than that I will support you no matter what Sophia	ColorEdit Offline Fresh Boarder Dont leave when i talking to you. -Mixerz 2k17 Posts: 71 Thanks received: 2 Karma: -3
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Announcing something + big change 6 years 7 months ago #714703

for those who have quoted "Smo" i know it's a risky thing to do and i'll probably receive a lot of backlash for it but i do not care for that, i just want people to see me for who and what i am	Sophia Offline Diamond Boarder I'll always be the last one standing Posts: 2849 Thanks received: 775 Karma: -2
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Announcing something + big change 6 years 7 months ago #714717

Brave of you to do this, while I don't think it's healthy I will be there to support you if you ever need me for anything.	Morgan Offline Legendary Member Posts: 15970 Thanks received: 6527 Karma: 105
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Announcing something + big change 6 years 7 months ago #714729

ok	Bhavya Shah Offline Expert Boarder "Save the tears for when we win!" Posts: 1096 Thanks received: 246 Karma: -18
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Announcing something + big change 6 years 7 months ago #714733

Morgan wrote: Brave of you to do this, while I don't think it's healthy I will be there to support you if you ever need me for anything. what exactly is not healthy about it? me wanting to have a body the same gender as i wish to be treated like and feel like? i'd like to know why you think it isn't healthy	Sophia Offline Diamond Boarder I'll always be the last one standing Posts: 2849 Thanks received: 775 Karma: -2
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Announcing something + big change 6 years 7 months ago #714739

It is extremely brave of you to post this here considering most people here are edgy teens that thrive off disrespecting. Good luck with everything! <3	Jim_Jam Offline Former Community Manager TTT is my child ❤️ Posts: 8586 Thanks received: 3491 Karma: -32
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Announcing something + big change 6 years 7 months ago #714744

Proud that you had the confidence to post this All the best <3	CrankyBot Offline Legendary Member Second Grade Soundboard Posts: 3930 Thanks received: 1173 Karma: 44
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Announcing something + big change 6 years 7 months ago #714745

wow this is really brave of you to come out with this sophia	maybedovahkitty Offline User is blocked Бог мертв Posts: 7710 Thanks received: 1226 Karma: -74
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Announcing something + big change 6 years 7 months ago #714748

Logan Clark wrote:

It is extremely brave of you to post this here considering most people here are edgy teens that thrive off disrespecting.

Good luck with everything! <3

if people wish to disrespect me i do not care, call me out all you want it will leave me cold, i have had several posts so far removed because i felt they weren't serious or taking the piss, if people wish to disrespect me go ahead, i know they do it because they are unhappy with themselves and are just being jealous that i have the courage to come out like this

here's my 2nd steam account for those who wish to add it, i'll be using both accounts but mainly this one
steamcommunity.com/id/Sophiachan/

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Announcing something + big change 6 years 7 months ago #714749

DeathRazor213 wrote:

Morgan wrote:

Brave of you to do this, while I don't think it's healthy I will be there to support you if you ever need me for anything.

what exactly is not healthy about it?
me wanting to have a body the same gender as i wish to be treated like and feel like?
i'd like to know why you think it isn't healthy

I could sit here and explain my viewpoint on the topic but I'd rather not cause un-needed drama.

TL;DR You do you, as I said I'd be there for you if you need me for anything.

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Announcing something + big change 6 years 7 months ago #714759

I think you can legally finish that promise now. Where's that sex that you promised me in 2014?	Mobile Task Force Gunner Offline Expert Boarder 12/12/2017 Posts: 1143 Thanks received: 282 Karma: -2
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Announcing something + big change 6 years 7 months ago #714769

Mobile Task Force Gunner wrote: I think you can legally finish that promise now. Where's that sex that you promised me in 2014? i recall saying "i'll fuck you up" not "i'll fuck you" sorry boy, nice try though	Sophia Offline Diamond Boarder I'll always be the last one standing Posts: 2849 Thanks received: 775 Karma: -2
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Announcing something + big change 6 years 7 months ago #714774

DeathRazor213 wrote: Mobile Task Force Gunner wrote: I think you can legally finish that promise now. Where's that sex that you promised me in 2014? i recall saying "i'll fuck you up" not "i'll fuck you" sorry boy, nice try though Thanks for ruining my excitement. Thought I had you there.	Mobile Task Force Gunner Offline Expert Boarder 12/12/2017 Posts: 1143 Thanks received: 282 Karma: -2
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