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taking some time with my thoughts 6 years 1 month ago #862464

Hope you get better man.	Ezeh Offline Mythical Boarder A wild fox Posts: 5621 Thanks received: 1395 Karma: -86
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taking some time with my thoughts 6 years 1 month ago #862468

I really hope you get well soon man, depression can be very difficult, I have been struggeling with it for most of my life now. Incase you want to talk you have me on Steam.	Wolfi Offline Legendary Member Future Owner and Manager of Murder Posts: 8738 Thanks received: 2708 Karma: 52
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taking some time with my thoughts 6 years 1 month ago #862486

I dont know you Sorle, but I do know what you are going through. If you need anyone to talk to who has been through all that, hit me up. steamcommunity.com/id/Samiel_6	Stewie Offline Junior Boarder Posts: 238 Thanks received: 70 Karma: 1
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taking some time with my thoughts 6 years 1 month ago #862536

I'm sorry to hear this, get well soon man.	Gurren Lagan Offline Senior Boarder walking like an Egyptian Posts: 493 Thanks received: 201 Karma: 4
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taking some time with my thoughts 6 years 1 month ago #862796

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Bread Lee Guy Less wrote:

my bed is physically and mentally draining.

I'd say anyone who spends as much as an hour a day on the computer has that problem (more or less). You said it yourself; motivation is the issue. Playing games all day keeps your brain active on useless stuff, it gives you the kind of fulfillment you think you need but what you actually need are real hobbies. I don't know how to say it to convince you but if something is wrong with your life you gotta make a change - Nobody is gonna make that change for you.

If you spend a week without your pc you might realise you don't actually need it as long as you find something to replace it with. It could be some real life hobbie like painting or whatever but don't come crying on the forums because this is the third if not the fourth post i've seen from you and you clearly don't take anyones advice you just keep on crying because you can't get your lazy ass to back to work.

The problem isn't PC as much as it is video games, you can easily pick up hobbies that can be productive on your PC, in the past I've done it with learning Sony Vegas/Photoshop/SFM for my YouTube stuff and it really helped me get out of the dark rut I was in, you don't have to completely ditch your computer to be productive.

And I understand where you are coming from but try being a little less hostile my man, you can get your point across without the passive aggressiveness.

I'm getting your point aswell but the computer brings distractions; the second you open your browser you might find yourself stuck on some pornsite. Sure I do programming as as hobby but whenever you'll go to youtube for a tutorial for instance you might find it hard stay on task. And maybe it worked for you to be productive on the pc but not everyone can do that and it's something that Sorle isn't capable of clearly.

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taking some time with my thoughts 6 years 1 month ago #862799

ok sorle love you see you soon	Ashur Offline Mythical Boarder Legendary Member Posts: 5568 Thanks received: 1276 Karma: -160
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taking some time with my thoughts 6 years 1 month ago #862819

Bread Lee Guy Less wrote:

Blocked wrote:

Bread Lee Guy Less wrote:

my bed is physically and mentally draining.

I'd say anyone who spends as much as an hour a day on the computer has that problem (more or less). You said it yourself; motivation is the issue. Playing games all day keeps your brain active on useless stuff, it gives you the kind of fulfillment you think you need but what you actually need are real hobbies. I don't know how to say it to convince you but if something is wrong with your life you gotta make a change - Nobody is gonna make that change for you.

If you spend a week without your pc you might realise you don't actually need it as long as you find something to replace it with. It could be some real life hobbie like painting or whatever but don't come crying on the forums because this is the third if not the fourth post i've seen from you and you clearly don't take anyones advice you just keep on crying because you can't get your lazy ass to back to work.

The problem isn't PC as much as it is video games, you can easily pick up hobbies that can be productive on your PC, in the past I've done it with learning Sony Vegas/Photoshop/SFM for my YouTube stuff and it really helped me get out of the dark rut I was in, you don't have to completely ditch your computer to be productive.

And I understand where you are coming from but try being a little less hostile my man, you can get your point across without the passive aggressiveness.

I'm getting your point aswell but the computer brings distractions; the second you open your browser you might find yourself stuck on some pornsite. Sure I do programming as as hobby but whenever you'll go to youtube for a tutorial for instance you might find it hard stay on task. And maybe it worked for you to be productive on the pc but not everyone can do that and it's something that Sorle isn't capable of clearly.

I'm learning programming as a hobby + at school and I also write on my computer a fair bit, but you make a strong point in that I find it hard to stay on task.

anyway, my mood's lifting a little bit after being more productive with my time, might come on a little bit more but not too much until i feel like it won't affect my staffing

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taking some time with my thoughts 6 years 1 month ago #862824

Klaprefot wrote:

ChummyXRay wrote:

I don't often talk about my issues within the community, but this is something that hits close to home. I know we have not talked much, but I am usually up for a chat if people want. I've suffered in and out of depression for quite a bit of my life and have tried a few different ways of handling it. I've done mental/spiritual counseling, therapy, meds, etc. I'm currently on antidepressants and antianxiety medication. If you think a chat might help out in any way, please don't hesitate to reach out. The last thing you should do when feeling down is actively avoid help, I wish I understood that years ago.

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taking some time with my thoughts 6 years 1 month ago #862829

i know what you need man Warning: Spoiler! [ Click to expand ][ Click to hide ]	Gamentix Offline Junior Boarder Ex ssrp admin Posts: 195 Thanks received: 54 Karma: -1
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taking some time with my thoughts 6 years 1 month ago #862832

Gamentix wrote: i know what you need man Warning: Spoiler! [ Click to expand ][ Click to hide ] how the fuck did I know you were gonna say something like that as soon as I saw you replied ahahahaha	SorIe Offline Marvelous Boarder Posts: 10830 Thanks received: 4289 Karma: 401
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taking some time with my thoughts 6 years 1 month ago #862839

sorIe wrote: Gamentix wrote: i know what you need man Warning: Spoiler! [ Click to expand ][ Click to hide ] how the fuck did I know you were gonna say something like that as soon as I saw you replied ahahahaha <3	Gamentix Offline Junior Boarder Ex ssrp admin Posts: 195 Thanks received: 54 Karma: -1
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taking some time with my thoughts 6 years 1 month ago #862841

sorIe wrote: Gamentix wrote: i know what you need man Warning: Spoiler! [ Click to expand ][ Click to hide ] how the fuck did I know you were gonna say something like that as soon as I saw you replied ahahahaha Honestly I was expecting him to say something racist, he's funny like that.	Nafe Offline Former Community Manager Posts: 18584 Thanks received: 8581 Karma: -377
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taking some time with my thoughts 6 years 1 month ago #862850

Nafe wrote: sorIe wrote: Gamentix wrote: i know what you need man Warning: Spoiler! [ Click to expand ][ Click to hide ] how the fuck did I know you were gonna say something like that as soon as I saw you replied ahahahaha Honestly I was expecting him to say something racist, he's funny like that. i would never do that	Gamentix Offline Junior Boarder Ex ssrp admin Posts: 195 Thanks received: 54 Karma: -1
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taking some time with my thoughts 6 years 1 month ago #862852

Gamentix wrote:

Nafe wrote:

sorIe wrote:

Gamentix wrote:

i know what you need man

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how the fuck did I know you were gonna say something like that as soon as I saw you replied ahahahaha

Honestly I was expecting him to say something racist, he's funny like that.

i would never do that

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New policy can't allow that.

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taking some time with my thoughts 6 years 1 month ago #862962

Nafe wrote:

sorIe wrote:

Gamentix wrote:

i know what you need man

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how the fuck did I know you were gonna say something like that as soon as I saw you replied ahahahaha

Honestly I was expecting him to say something racist, he's funny like that.

Because of how many times I had to ban him for racism as global mod I expected the exact same thing lol

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taking some time with my thoughts 6 years 1 month ago #862979

ChummyXRay wrote:

I don't often talk about my issues within the community, but this is something that hits close to home. I know we have not talked much, but I am usually up for a chat if people want. I've suffered in and out of depression for quite a bit of my life and have tried a few different ways of handling it. I've done mental/spiritual counseling, therapy, meds, etc. I'm currently on antidepressants and antianxiety medication. If you think a chat might help out in any way, please don't hesitate to reach out. The last thing you should do when feeling down is actively avoid help, I wish I understood that years ago.

On some real shit, you can talk to this guy about anything for real. It's sad that some struggles that you'll probably list or talk to him about he relates too, but it's definitely someone you can rely on to spill out your thoughts. All these people saying "hit them up" if you really got some shit to talk about just tell em, it's better than keeping all your shit in your head. Glad your mood is lifting, yet just know multiple people are there to talk to G.