TOPIC: Anger and You: A Short Guide

You can also take it all out on a fidget spinner. Or a wall.

Coutinroy wrote:

HOKUTO SHINKEN

@Cout Yuuuup. Anger ain't healthy when it's bottled up, but it also isn't prudent to take it out on anyone. Sometimes it's about finding the right way to vent.

Instructions not clear, anger stuck in my breathe.

B-bump.

This is so nice! Thank you for making this! Although I understand most of these, especially point 5 is extremely useful (for basically everyone)

Should have looked at this yesterday lmfao

You can't tell me what to do

I can, and will. I COMMAND THEE

Tyler Durden wrote:
cus ur fat

Chroma wrote:
You really do need attention don't you?

Jim_Jam wrote:
True, I don't know what's going through his head but he's acting dumb af right now

This is what I mean with this guide - it helps to think about what you type before you type it. Even if you're not in a flame war, even if you're just writing a normal message, it's a good idea to think about if your post is beneficial to anyone, including yourself. Remember that there are plenty of people in this community who have almost irrevocably ruined their reputation because of the things they've said without thinking.

I'm bumping this under the pretences that it be used by some of our rowdier members; calm down, guys.

I want to suck your penis father watson

No because this is a terrible mindset to have.

If you don't allow people to say their opinions because they may be negative, you're neutering any from of debate in society.

I have to disagree, Exrobite.

But not in the sense that you're wrong persé, more so that you misunderstood my argument.
I'm not saying people can't say anything negative, I'm saying that people shouldn't feel the need to belittle other people's opinions in a non-constructive manner. It's like the difference between constructive criticism and insulting someone's work outright by saying "This is shit".

I will admit that I could've worded the argument better, though. I could've written "Did you ever think that instead of saying "this is shit", you could just say something like: "I don't like this, and here's why:" and then offer a constructive argument."

People should be free to speak their mind, but at the same time; if someone decides to be a douche and start attacking another user for having an opinion and then it just evolves into a flame war, don't you think that's kind of not so much debate as it is just being spiteful and needlessly aggressive?

Once more: I'm all for having a discussion and a debate, and I'll listen to any arguments you might have! But you'll be reducing those arguments to little more than background ambience when you start throwing insults and aggression my way (Not you in particular, more just an example than anything else).

Appersntly I have anger issues so I came to this guide cause I called a 12 year old immature

Jugger wrote: feelsbadman

Therapist wrote:
Even the deacon in my school agrees