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WTF do I do? 7 years 10 months ago #338567

Whats with all the negativity it was a joke	Jake_ Offline Senior Boarder ✪SSRP Admin✪ ✪Murder Moderator✪ Posts: 397 Thanks received: 20 Karma: 8
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WTF do I do? 7 years 10 months ago #338593

ToXIc Gaming wrote: Why are you asking this on a community full of keyboard warrior 13 year olds? Like you're gonna get good advice, Just fucking go out with her.... Best post of the day. seriusly if you like her ask her out specialy if you know she wants to ask you out	BigQuattro Offline Senior Boarder Minecraft Moderator, Ex-SSRP Moderator Posts: 391 Thanks received: 40 Karma: 4
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WTF do I do? 7 years 10 months ago #338596

Guys, let's stop arguing before somebody gets banned. If you don't have anything constructive to the main topic, don't post it please.	Tettra Offline Legendary Member The original Good Boy™️ Posts: 3860 Thanks received: 930 Karma: 16
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WTF do I do? 7 years 10 months ago #338618

Ladies ladies you're all ugly. Let's just stop	GmodTrolla Offline Diamond Boarder Posts: 4590 Thanks received: 805 Karma: -88
Aspect wrote: you always manage to 1 shot us even though you're extremely exposed in the open and you shouldn't really have a chance to kill us. You just make these crazy 1 taps not even Hermione did when he played, and I can tell you he played 18 hours a day at one point. Login or register to post a reply.

WTF do I do? 7 years 10 months ago #338620

Gmod Troller wrote: Ladies ladies you're all ugly. Let's just stop What you talking aboot ey	Slapy47 Offline Gold Boarder EX- DarkRP Admin - TTT Moderator - Teamspeak Staff Posts: 2613 Thanks received: 479 Karma: 11
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WTF do I do? 7 years 10 months ago #338624

grab the popcorn	Muhammed Ali Offline Gold Boarder fuck Posts: 1977 Thanks received: 780 Karma: 24
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WTF do I do? 7 years 10 months ago #338643

Lewis_is_java wrote: Miro wrote: hit it then quit it Shit dude why did you say that now everyone with morals who've done nothign wrong are gonna be down your throat telling you how much of a bad person you are You really are a bad person arnt you? Do you act like this irl?	Indiana Jones Offline Legendary Member aghaha yaaaaah Posts: 10521 Thanks received: 4054 Karma: -291
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WTF do I do? 7 years 10 months ago #338647

If you like her say yes, make sure your ready for a relationship tho	KapiJam Offline Diamond Boarder emotionally attracted to chuteuk Posts: 4646 Thanks received: 1148 Karma: 90
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WTF do I do? 7 years 10 months ago #338664

Lewis_is_java wrote: Miro wrote: hit it then quit it Shit dude why did you say that now everyone with morals who've done nothign wrong are gonna be down your throat telling you how much of a bad person you are	RedPowder Offline Former Owner Posts: 4489 Thanks received: 3318 Karma: 214
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WTF do I do? 7 years 10 months ago #338665

RedPowder wrote:

Lewis_is_java wrote:

Miro wrote:

hit it then quit it

Shit dude why did you say that now everyone with morals who've done nothign wrong are gonna be down your throat telling you how much of a bad person you are

I know how I got banned and it wasn't by annoying people (unintentionally) with things I say

Still though you made me laugh I did say if anyone wants to keep arguing with me just to bring it on steam

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WTF do I do? 7 years 10 months ago #338671

Lewis_is_java wrote:

RedPowder wrote:

Lewis_is_java wrote:

Miro wrote:

hit it then quit it

Shit dude why did you say that now everyone with morals who've done nothign wrong are gonna be down your throat telling you how much of a bad person you are

I know how I got banned and it wasn't by annoying people (unintentionally) with things I say

Still though you made me laugh I did say if anyone wants to keep arguing with me just to bring it on steam

now your going out of your way to piss off people and act like an arse for a "joke" god i will throw a party when you get recmed

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WTF do I do? 7 years 10 months ago #338675

Lewis_is_java wrote:

RedPowder wrote:

Lewis_is_java wrote:

Miro wrote:

hit it then quit it

Shit dude why did you say that now everyone with morals who've done nothign wrong are gonna be down your throat telling you how much of a bad person you are

I know how I got banned and it wasn't by annoying people (unintentionally) with things I say

Still though you made me laugh I did say if anyone wants to keep arguing with me just to bring it on steam

Well I made light of this situation but let me be serious with you for a second if I ever see another thread and is cause due to your lack of respect I will community ban you again. You have missed a lot since you have been gone and now we re cm ban people hours, days or even weeks later if they still haven't grasped what's right and wrong.

It's over now go find another thread to be productive on.

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WTF do I do? 7 years 10 months ago #338679

Slapy47 wrote: Gmod Troller wrote: Ladies ladies you're all ugly. Let's just stop What you talking aboot ey Go be with your waifu ey?	GmodTrolla Offline Diamond Boarder Posts: 4590 Thanks received: 805 Karma: -88
Aspect wrote: you always manage to 1 shot us even though you're extremely exposed in the open and you shouldn't really have a chance to kill us. You just make these crazy 1 taps not even Hermione did when he played, and I can tell you he played 18 hours a day at one point. Login or register to post a reply.

WTF do I do? 7 years 10 months ago #338680

now your going out of your way to piss off people and act like an arse for a "joke" god i will throw a party when you get recmed

Never going to happen because I'm a good boy.

Well I made light of this situation but let me be serious with you for a second if I ever see another thread and is cause due to your lack of respect I will community ban you again. You have missed a lot since you have been gone and now we re cm ban people hours, days or even weeks later if they still haven't grasped what's right and wrong.

It's over now go find another thread to be productive on.

Will do. I've seen codcomedy get banned within 24 hours of being unbanned.

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WTF do I do? 7 years 10 months ago #338681

Lock inc? Unless Sam needs more ZARP life advice I think a lock is needed ...incase anyone has an idea to cause another shitsorm 2.0	GmodTrolla Offline Diamond Boarder Posts: 4590 Thanks received: 805 Karma: -88
Aspect wrote: you always manage to 1 shot us even though you're extremely exposed in the open and you shouldn't really have a chance to kill us. You just make these crazy 1 taps not even Hermione did when he played, and I can tell you he played 18 hours a day at one point. Login or register to post a reply.

WTF do I do? 7 years 10 months ago #338682

You guys manage to turn any thread into a fucking shit tip, congratulations for being the most dramatic killjoys on the internet.

Now, advice:

I've been in relationships with obsession on each end of the relationship, I've been obsessed over a girl and I've had it back and what I can say is that obsession never works out for either of the pair. She'll end up being over-clingy, annoying, frustrating and overall just a pain in the ass if she's very obsessive over you. Don't fuck and chuck, although I'm not sure of your age, if you're 13 or younger you're unlikely to do this anyways but the point is don't be a little fuckboy, if you're into the obsessive stuff then sure, go out with her just prepare for the four consequences I previously listed.

Here's a section of an article I found that pretty much perfectly describes this.

What do I mean by love and fixation?

Well, when you love someone, it is pretty effortless. It is true and pure – you don’t need them to be any certain way. Heck, you don’t even need them to be your boyfriend or lover. You just simply enjoy them as a person and you’re happy with them just being who they are. You don’t need to possess them. You don’t need a title from them. You just love having them in your life and they love being in yours, whether it’s as friends, as lovers, or as life partners.

Again, I have to emphasize that it’s effortless and characterized by you just simply enjoying each other. You really “get” each other. You laugh together. You don’t need them, but rather, you just enjoy them.

That’s love. That’s compatibility.

Fixation, on the other hand, does not feel pleasant. It does not feel good, but it does feel very urgent, very important, and very stressful.

When you’re fixated on someone, it feels more like you’re suffocating. It feels like you need them… like you must have them treat you a certain way, give you a certain relationship title, or somehow prove their commitment to you. You feel like until you have this, you are not OK and will not be OK.

When you’re fixated on someone, your relationship ceases to be about enjoyment and effortlessness. Instead, it is more like you are gasping for air, desperately hoping they’ll give you whatever it is you think you need from them.

Granted, even good relationships have a little bit of fixation mixed in with them (I must emphasize a little bit), but it is only during very occasional occurrences like arguments or when one or both partners are stressed. In general, though, compatible people have very little, if any, fixation in their relationships…

People who have good relationships observe how they themselves feel in a relationship with another person (whether it’s a lover, a friend or a co-worker). They observe if their connection to the other person feels like love (good) or obsession (bad).

If it feels like obsession, they drop it like it’s hot.

The point of this is mostly focused on the last few paragraphs, if she's obsessed (fixated in this context) then it's more like she doesn't love you but treats you like a drug and needs you, the relationship's not gonna be very fun and more one sided - her side in this situation.

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WTF do I do? 7 years 10 months ago #338690

Stratiic wrote:

You guys manage to turn any thread into a fucking shit tip, congratulations for being the most dramatic killjoys on the internet.

Now, advice:

I've been in relationships with obsession on each end of the relationship, I've been obsessed over a girl and I've had it back and what I can say is that obsession never works out for either of the pair. She'll end up being over-clingy, annoying, frustrating and overall just a pain in the ass if she's very obsessive over you. Don't fuck and chuck, although I'm not sure of your age, if you're 13 or younger you're unlikely to do this anyways but the point is don't be a little fuckboy, if you're into the obsessive stuff then sure, go out with her just prepare for the four consequences I previously listed.

Here's a section of an article I found that pretty much perfectly describes this.

What do I mean by love and fixation?

Well, when you love someone, it is pretty effortless. It is true and pure – you don’t need them to be any certain way. Heck, you don’t even need them to be your boyfriend or lover. You just simply enjoy them as a person and you’re happy with them just being who they are. You don’t need to possess them. You don’t need a title from them. You just love having them in your life and they love being in yours, whether it’s as friends, as lovers, or as life partners.

Again, I have to emphasize that it’s effortless and characterized by you just simply enjoying each other. You really “get” each other. You laugh together. You don’t need them, but rather, you just enjoy them.

That’s love. That’s compatibility.

Fixation, on the other hand, does not feel pleasant. It does not feel good, but it does feel very urgent, very important, and very stressful.

When you’re fixated on someone, it feels more like you’re suffocating. It feels like you need them… like you must have them treat you a certain way, give you a certain relationship title, or somehow prove their commitment to you. You feel like until you have this, you are not OK and will not be OK.

When you’re fixated on someone, your relationship ceases to be about enjoyment and effortlessness. Instead, it is more like you are gasping for air, desperately hoping they’ll give you whatever it is you think you need from them.

Granted, even good relationships have a little bit of fixation mixed in with them (I must emphasize a little bit), but it is only during very occasional occurrences like arguments or when one or both partners are stressed. In general, though, compatible people have very little, if any, fixation in their relationships…

People who have good relationships observe how they themselves feel in a relationship with another person (whether it’s a lover, a friend or a co-worker). They observe if their connection to the other person feels like love (good) or obsession (bad).

If it feels like obsession, they drop it like it’s hot.

The point of this is mostly focused on the last few paragraphs, if she's obsessed (fixated in this context) then it's more like she doesn't love you but treats you like a drug and needs you, the relationship's not gonna be very fun and more one sided - her side in this situation.

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Good advice *tips hat* M'lad

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Aspect wrote:

you always manage to 1 shot us even though you're extremely exposed in the open and you shouldn't really have a chance to kill us. You just make these crazy 1 taps not even Hermione did when he played, and I can tell you he played 18 hours a day at one point.

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WTF do I do? 7 years 10 months ago #338711

ask her if she wants to see all your pokemon cards	ParaMontana Offline User is blocked Posts: 5541 Thanks received: 3172 Karma: -1047
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WTF do I do? 7 years 10 months ago #338712

Say yes, it doesn't harm to go on a date with her. Maybe you'll like her, maybe you wont. You wont know unless you go out with her.	Legendary Soldier Offline Former Community Manager Still alive bois Posts: 2602 Thanks received: 1431 Karma: 61
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WTF do I do? 7 years 10 months ago #338716

ask if she watches naruto	spodermon Offline Diamond Boarder heyyyy Posts: 4531 Thanks received: 1394 Karma: 18
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